The couple who planned ahead

Updated 13 November 2026

An illustrative example based on a common situation. Names and details are invented.

Unlike most stories here, this one is about a couple who acted early. John and Pat were in their late sixties, healthy and enjoying retirement when a friend's experience with care fees made them think.

What they did

They spoke to a specialist about their wills, how their home was owned and powers of attorney. It took a couple of meetings and wasn't expensive. They didn't give anything away or try to hide anything from the council. They simply set things up properly while they both could.

What happened later

Twelve years later, John died. A few years after that, Pat developed dementia and needed residential care.

Because of the planning they had done together, John's share of the home was protected for their children rather than passing outright to Pat. Their son already had power of attorney, so he could deal with everything straight away.

The difference it made

Pat still paid for her care from her own assets, as she was expected to. But part of the family home was preserved for the next generation, and there was no court application, no delay and no guesswork at a very difficult time.

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